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BOOKS
Started The Presence by T. Davis Bunn yesterday. It's really interesting. It is not linked to The Warning or The Ultimatum (also by T. Davis Bunn). It is based around the character TJ Case who is a lawyer. He was a Congressman, but crossed party lines to help a friend get into Congress and then ended up losing his seat. Anyway, I'm only on chapter 4, but it has some really great characters. One thing I appreciate about the books I have read of Bunn's, is that his characters are struggling to accept who God has called them to be and have to make huge sacrifices for God. I think it has been helpful as I have thought about my "major decision". Anyway, very interesting.
I haven't chosen my next non-fiction book yet. I only have like 12 I would like to read..lol :) But at the rate I read non-fiction that could take me a year.
THOUGHTS FOR TODAY
My daughter had her first soccer practice last night. She was too funny. A total bundle of energy and she would just fly towards the ball but really had no clue what to do with it once she had it. She couldn't remember who was on her team and kept getting confused as to which way to kick it! But she had a great time and that's what is important right? :)
As a mom who has never been a part of the soccer sport, I was disappointed by the fact that not one person really helped me out as to what was going on. I saw a few familiar faces (from around school), but no one came up to help me feel "included". It was very odd. I have heard it said that church leagues (of any sport) are the worst to play on. And I unfortunately am beginning to wonder if it's true. With softball, everyone was very nice and we would talk as practice was going on and learn little things about each other. But walking out to the soccer field, it became very obvious that everyone knew everyone else and that I was the outsider. It was awkward--very awkward. And frustrating! Part of me just wanted to say "forget it" and go home. And probably would have if my daughter hadn't had a great time.
So as I think about that experience it brings to me a sense of urgency to make sure our church doesn't become like that. That when a new person walks through the door we are friendly and welcoming and willing to "show them the ropes". And how important that not just one person does that, but several--so the new person really feels like they are being accepted and really wanted there. Help me God to remember that every Sunday, regardless of what is going on, the most important thing is to make people feel Your love in a tangible way.
Would love to hear about your experiences of being an "outsider" or creative ways you've helped others not feel like an "outsider"! Feel free to Sound Off!
Tuesday, August 27, 2002
Sunday, August 25, 2002
Hey, Hey, Hey--look who's back :) Maybe I'd be better at weekly blogging? lol.
BOOKS
I FINISHED IT! :) ( For Better or For Best that is) Smalley is big into practical ideas. Which I appreciate, but at times get frustrated because I can be sort of an anal person and think if I just do this, this and this, this will happen. Which is hardly EVER true unless you are doing math! But I probably learned three important lessons (nothing new here--just good reminders)
1. Don't assume you know everything.
2. If you do assume so, be willing to apologize everytime you are proven wrong.
3. And when you actually do know something, don't rub it in.
:) lol. Ok, just kidding (sort of). The main theme throughout the book is the same thing I hear over and over in every book I read about relationships and every person I've ever known who has went to marital counseling gets the same theme as well--"If you want a better marriage, you are going to have to be willing to change." No matter who you are or what the situation is, you cannot coerce, manipulate, persuade, or bribe your mate into being who you want them to be. You have to become who God wants you to be and delight in your mate because you love your mate unconditionally, not because you want something. :)
THOUGHTS FOR TODAY
Have you ever had a decision to make and you just can't seem to decide? I'm not usually that way. I'm usually very decisive. But man right now, I'm stuck. God seems totally silent on the subject and I've polled most of my friends and have gotten very little response because it's one of those big decisions that no one really wants to say their opinion for fear that they might be steering you wrong. It's one of those major decisions that will affect every little part of your entire life--it's a turn your life upside down kind of decision. And God seems silent. I would think He would have a lot to say about this, but He seems to just be waiting. And I HATE waiting--lol. Of course He knows that, and I'm sure He's grinning at me right now. Patience my child. In due time my daughter. Or am I not listening? What if He's telling me and I'm not listening? Ugh..I really hate these kinds of things :) I know I'm learning something through this process. And I know He has a plan. I just don't want to miss it, ya know?
Would love to hear about the times God has seemed to be "silent" and how it all turned out! Sound Off!
BOOKS
I FINISHED IT! :) ( For Better or For Best that is) Smalley is big into practical ideas. Which I appreciate, but at times get frustrated because I can be sort of an anal person and think if I just do this, this and this, this will happen. Which is hardly EVER true unless you are doing math! But I probably learned three important lessons (nothing new here--just good reminders)
1. Don't assume you know everything.
2. If you do assume so, be willing to apologize everytime you are proven wrong.
3. And when you actually do know something, don't rub it in.
:) lol. Ok, just kidding (sort of). The main theme throughout the book is the same thing I hear over and over in every book I read about relationships and every person I've ever known who has went to marital counseling gets the same theme as well--"If you want a better marriage, you are going to have to be willing to change." No matter who you are or what the situation is, you cannot coerce, manipulate, persuade, or bribe your mate into being who you want them to be. You have to become who God wants you to be and delight in your mate because you love your mate unconditionally, not because you want something. :)
THOUGHTS FOR TODAY
Have you ever had a decision to make and you just can't seem to decide? I'm not usually that way. I'm usually very decisive. But man right now, I'm stuck. God seems totally silent on the subject and I've polled most of my friends and have gotten very little response because it's one of those big decisions that no one really wants to say their opinion for fear that they might be steering you wrong. It's one of those major decisions that will affect every little part of your entire life--it's a turn your life upside down kind of decision. And God seems silent. I would think He would have a lot to say about this, but He seems to just be waiting. And I HATE waiting--lol. Of course He knows that, and I'm sure He's grinning at me right now. Patience my child. In due time my daughter. Or am I not listening? What if He's telling me and I'm not listening? Ugh..I really hate these kinds of things :) I know I'm learning something through this process. And I know He has a plan. I just don't want to miss it, ya know?
Would love to hear about the times God has seemed to be "silent" and how it all turned out! Sound Off!
Saturday, August 24, 2002
It's me again:)
First things first.
Heylo Brian:)thanks for reading:)
Where to start.
We went and looked at the car.
The car was in great shape for being 15 years old. It ran good, drove nice, all that usual stuff you look for in a car.
While talking to the lady who was selling it we found out that she was selling it becuase her husband in filing for divorce AGAIN.
Made me kinda feel bad for thinking of offering her less than what she wanted.
No incase your wondering we didn't buy it. yet:)
Still trying to figure why I have my job :)
There have been several conversations arise that have been about church/religion kinda conversations ,if ya know what I mean.
I have tried to voice my opinion without offense or "sterotypical" retort to somthing or anyone.
Family time!!!!
That's a huge one.
The kids have developed an interest in video games.
Been attempting to bond/play at the same time with them.
Well as you can see it's very late ( I think good when the house(people in it) is asleep.)
For some strange reason I have a craving for some Cap't N crunch ( which we don't have in the house) of course
So I reckon I'll just go to bed.
Got a big day ahead later on so .......
Catch Ya later
Josh
p.s. Goodnight Brian
First things first.
Heylo Brian:)thanks for reading:)
Where to start.
We went and looked at the car.
The car was in great shape for being 15 years old. It ran good, drove nice, all that usual stuff you look for in a car.
While talking to the lady who was selling it we found out that she was selling it becuase her husband in filing for divorce AGAIN.
Made me kinda feel bad for thinking of offering her less than what she wanted.
No incase your wondering we didn't buy it. yet:)
Still trying to figure why I have my job :)
There have been several conversations arise that have been about church/religion kinda conversations ,if ya know what I mean.
I have tried to voice my opinion without offense or "sterotypical" retort to somthing or anyone.
Family time!!!!
That's a huge one.
The kids have developed an interest in video games.
Been attempting to bond/play at the same time with them.
Well as you can see it's very late ( I think good when the house(people in it) is asleep.)
For some strange reason I have a craving for some Cap't N crunch ( which we don't have in the house) of course
So I reckon I'll just go to bed.
Got a big day ahead later on so .......
Catch Ya later
Josh
p.s. Goodnight Brian
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